The people you meet always add something to your life, be it negative
or positive. Regardless of the type of impact they leave, you always
learn a valuable lesson from their presence. Below are the different
types of people you have to meet in your 20s to help shape you into the
person you want to be.
1. The Giver
This person has dedicated their whole life to the simple art of
giving. Be it giving a homeless person loose change or their time to an
animal shelter, they are always giving. Being around this giving nature
will unintentionally motivate you to give more of yourself too.
2. The Adventurer
The Adventurer is always going somewhere and always doing something
unbelievably exciting. Although you may not always be up for everything
they are up to, simply being around them when they do thrilling things
will inspire you to break out of your comfort zone and do things you
never would normally do. This person will push you to travel the world,
which is what everybody in their twenties has to do at some point.
3. The Helper
This person is always willing to help no matter what their situation
is. Whether it’s you in trouble or someone else, this person is always
ready to help. Being around this person drives you to be more aware of
people who are in need of help and extend your hand more than you
usually would.
4. The Complainer
For this person, nothing is ever good enough. Nothing can ever meet
their standards. When you are around them, all you ever hear is them
complaining about something or the other. Although this may not be the
healthiest environment, it helps you reflect on your views in life and
makes you appreciate things more. Being around the complainer actually
makes you complain less.
5. The Risk-taker
This person is constantly taking risks in their relationships or even
in their workplace. They always seem to place everything on the line,
which may not always work out well. Seeing them being extremely brave
with their choices motivates you to be the same way. Even if you don’t
become an extreme risk taker, you end up pushing yourself to be more
risky than you usually would.
6. The Free-spirit
The Free-spirit has no ties to anything or anyone. They are
constantly changing jobs and moving from one relationship to the next.
They constantly move houses and sometimes
countries.You
may find it very hard to keep track of where this person is or what
they are doing. Their freedom reminds you to not take life so seriously.
They remind you how transient things can be, which helps you enjoy
moments in life more.
7. The Stable One
The complete opposite of the Free-spirit, the Stable One has their
life in order. They have the standard nine to five job with the very
stable relationship and a lease contract valid for more than a year.
These people weren’t always this stable. In fact, they probably were
messes a couple of years ago. Being around them reminds you that it’s
possible to gain stability even if it seems like your life is a mess.
After meeting them, you know that things will get better with time.
8. The Bossy One
The Bossy One feels the need to take charge in every situation, which
can get incredibly irritating at times. The Bossy One shows you how
important taking charge is but also when you need to take a step back.
9. The Honest One
This person will tell you to the truth no matter what. It doesn’t
matter if you are in tears, you know you’ll hear the honest answer to
whatever question you just asked. Their blunt attitude towards life
keeps you on track and reminds you how important the truth really is.
10. The Optimist
The Optimist always puts a positive spin on whatever situation they
are in. Their blind positive attitude may be irritating at times, but it
reminds you that you should always look on the bright side no matter
what obstacles cross your path.
11. The Pessimist
The Pessimist prevents you from floating away on The Optimist’s cloud
of positivity. They keep you grounded by reminding you of all the
things that could go wrong. Their constant negative attitude on life
keeps you in touch with reality, but also makes sure you maintain a
balance between being a realist and an idealist.
12. The Married One
This person has found the love of their life and has made the
ultimate commitment. Knowing someone like this helps you figure out what
you want, while subtly stressing the existence of love and it’s
importance.
13. The Manipulative One
Everyone has to meet The Manipulative One at some point in their
lives. This person manages to get what they want by using you as the
pawn. After you realise how you’ve been manipulated, you learn to be
more cautious in life. The Manipulative One teaches you to be stronger
than you thought you could be.
14. The Backstabber
When you meet this person, you will trust them with everything only
to have them use it against you. It’s important you meet someone like
this to remind you that being trusting is the best quality you can have
while betraying trust is the worst.
15. The Wise One
This person has a quote stored in their minds that applies to almost
any situation you find yourself in. They are like a walking self-help
book. They also have the best advice when you find yourself stuck. Being
around The Wise One allows the wisdom to rub off on you as well.
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